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Reading time: 3 min | Last updated: 20 July 2025
Quick Facts
- What It Is: Receiver kneels or squats over giver’s face facing their feet, while giver lies on back providing oral stimulation
- Also Known As: Reverse face sitting, backward queening, south-facing queening
- Difficulty: Easy (once you’ve mastered basic face-sitting, this is just a 180-degree turn)
- Best For: Enhanced anal access and seamless transition to mutual oral play
- Why It’s Amazing: Creates completely different sensations and visual perspectives for both partners
- Common Challenge: Initial awkwardness adjusting to the reversed orientation and finding the right angle
- Perfect Pairing: Positioning wedge for comfort, flavored oral-safe lube, hands-free stroker for giver’s simultaneous pleasure
Ready to Flip Your Oral Game Completely?
Think you’ve got face-sitting figured out? Time to turn everything around—literally. Reverse queening takes everything you love about being on top and adds a delicious twist that opens up access to places your partner’s tongue couldn’t quite reach before. It’s like discovering a secret room in a house you thought you knew inside and out, except this room is designed specifically for pleasure that’ll have you gripping the sheets.
Our reverse queening breakdown is launching soon with detailed instructions and techniques that’ll make this your new favorite variation. While exploring different oral positions might seem straightforward, there’s actually an art to nailing the angle, the pressure, and especially that smooth transition into other steamy positions. Our detailed guide covers everything from your first attempt to techniques that’ll make you both crave this position specifically.
What This Complete Guide Will Cover:
Getting Into Position Like a Pro
- Foolproof setup that works whether you’re a queening newbie or seasoned throne-sitter
- How to adjust angles and height differences so everyone gets exactly what they need
- Smooth transition moves from classic queening to reverse without breaking the heat
Making It Feel Incredible for Both of You
- Why this angle hits different spots that’ll surprise you both
- Dirty talk and guidance techniques that enhance rather than interrupt the flow
- How to pace yourselves for longer sessions that build to explosive finishes
Comfort and Safety Without Killing the Mood
- Weight distribution tricks that keep you comfortable and your partner breathing easy
- Subtle communication methods for “more,” “less,” and “exactly like that”
- Avoiding the rookie mistakes that can turn hot moments awkward
Next-Level Techniques and Variations
- The effortless glide into 69 that makes this position absolutely genius
- Creative ways to incorporate toys that enhance rather than complicate
- Power play dynamics for partners who want to explore dominance and submission
Troubleshooting When Things Don’t Click
- Solutions for when the angle feels weird at first (spoiler: this is totally normal)
- Confidence boosters for anyone feeling self-conscious about the new view
- Professional tips from sex educators who actually understand real bodies
Position Combinations That Flow Perfectly
- Creating longer sessions that feel natural rather than choreographed
- Building your oral repertoire with positions that complement each other beautifully
- Confidence-building progressions for couples ready to expand their horizons
Our detailed reverse queening guide launches soon with step-by-step instructions and insider techniques that’ll make this your new favorite variation. Until then, perfect your foundation skills and build your confidence with other positions in our collection.
Your Most Asked Questions About Reverse Queening
Is this harder than regular face-sitting? Not harder, just different—think of it like learning to drive in reverse after mastering forward.
How does this compare to classic queening? The reversed angle naturally enhances anal access while making mutual oral play ridiculously easy to transition into.
What makes the anal stimulation better in this position? Your anatomy opens up differently when facing this direction, creating access that forward-facing simply can’t match.
Do we need special equipment? A positioning wedge helps with comfort, but proper technique and good communication matter way more than fancy gear.
Should beginners start here or with regular queening first? Getting comfortable with classic queening builds confidence, but adventurous beginners can absolutely start with reverse if they’re feeling it.