Brunette woman sitting on chair with legs spread wide while muscular man kneels between her thighs performing cunnilingus.

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Reading time: 4 minutes | Last Updated: July 20, 2025

Quick Facts

  • What It Is: Receiving partner sits back-supported in chair with buttocks at seat edge, legs spread and elevated, while giving partner kneels between their thighs for cunnilingus
  • Also Known As: Heir to the Throne, Hot Seat Position, Chair Cunnilingus Position, Chair Edge Cunnilingus, Seated Queening
  • Difficulty: Easy enough that your biggest challenge will be choosing the right chair height
  • Best For: Extended pleasure sessions with complete relaxation and effortless empowerment dynamics
  • Why It’s Great: Smart angles meet zero strain – you control everything while they have ideal access for sustained pleasure
  • Common Challenge: Finding optimal chair height and ensuring comfortable kneeling position for extended sessions
  • Perfect Pairing: Womanizer or clit sucker toys, soft knee cushions, tongue vibrators like Lelo Ora 3

Here’s What’s Coming Your Way

We’re putting the finishing touches on what might just become your new favorite guide. I stumbled onto this position during a particularly adventurous weekend with my partner, and honestly? The confidence boost was addictive. There’s something about settling into that chair, watching your partner’s eyes light up as they position themselves between your legs, that just hits different.

This isn’t your typical “sit anywhere and hope for the best” advice. We’re talking about furniture selection that actually works, angles that consistently hit your sweet spots, and communication techniques that turn good oral into the kind of experience you’ll be thinking about days later.

What This Complete Guide Will Cover:

Finding Your Ideal Throne Setup

  • Chair hunting that considers your body, their comfort, and what actually works long-term (our chair sex positions guide covers the fundamentals if you’re starting from scratch)
  • Height adjustments and positioning tweaks for couples with different builds
  • Creating an environment where you both feel relaxed enough to really let go

Learning the Art of Seated Pleasure

  • Angle adjustments that target your most responsive spots consistently
  • Hand placement techniques that amplify sensations for both of you
  • Breathing and rhythm patterns that build intensity naturally

The Confidence Factor

  • Getting past that initial “am I too exposed?” nervousness (spoiler: you’re not)
  • Building genuine empowerment that enhances every sensation
  • Communication styles that deepen intimacy while maintaining that delicious dynamic

Making It Better Than What You’re Already Doing

  • Why this beats traditional positions for sustained, building pleasure
  • How to transition naturally from other intimate moments (perfect progression from our oral sex positions basics)
  • Incorporating this into your regular repertoire without it feeling forced or performative

Troubleshooting Real-World Issues

  • Solutions for height differences, furniture limitations, and comfort concerns
  • What to do when your knees start protesting (and alternatives that work just as well)
  • Making this work in actual homes with actual furniture constraints

Taking It Further

  • Accessories and additions that enhance without overwhelming
  • Different chair types and what each uniquely offers
  • Building this into longer sessions and combination experiences

Coming Soon: The Guide You’ve Been Asking For

This comprehensive Queen on the Throne guide drops within the next two weeks, and honestly, the anticipation emails we’re getting are making us blush.

Ready to build your foundation? Our classic cunnilingus guide covers all the tongue techniques that make this position work well. Curious about role switching? Our chair blow job techniques use the exact same setup with switched roles.

This one’s worth the wait.

A Sneak Peek: Your Most Asked Questions

Isn’t this just oral sex in a chair? What’s so special about it? The positioning creates different access angles and psychological dynamics. It’s like comparing a quick kiss to slow, deliberate making out – technically similar, but a different experience.

I feel self-conscious about being so visible – is that normal? Very normal, and we spend real time on this. The visibility is actually part of what makes it so hot, and we’ll show you how to embrace rather than worry about it.

What if kneeling gets uncomfortable quickly? We cover cushioning strategies, position modifications, and alternatives that keep the dynamic without the discomfort. No one should suffer for pleasure.

How does this compare to other oral positions you’ve covered? Unlike techniques that require flexibility or stamina, this leverages furniture for comfort while adding empowerment elements that create deeper satisfaction and longer sessions.

Will our height difference make this awkward? Height differences are actually easier to work with in chair positions than most others. We provide specific adjustments for every combination you might encounter.

Can we incorporate this naturally without it feeling scripted? Yes. We show you exactly how to suggest and transition into this position organically, so it feels like a natural progression rather than something you read about online. It’s all about reading the moment and your partner’s energy.

What toys work best with this position? Clit sucker toys like the Womanizer series or rose vibrators work well since your hands are free. Tongue vibrators like the Lelo Ora 3 can also enhance the experience, and quality water-based lube makes everything feel more realistic and comfortable.

 

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