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Reading time: 4 minutes | Last Updated: July 10, 2025
Quick Facts
- What It Is: Giver lies back with pillow support while receiver positions on all fours overhead for controlled oral pleasure
- Also Known As: Overhead BJ, inverted blowjob position, reverse oral position, plumber’s special
- Difficulty: Intermediate (coordination required but comfort-focused with proper setup)
- Best For: Enhanced giver control with deeper intimacy during oral sessions
- Why It’s Amazing: Unique overhead angle gives you complete control over depth and pressure while creating intense sensations
- Common Challenge: Finding comfortable pillow placement and getting used to the inverted angle
- Perfect Pairing: Premium water-based lube, couples’ vibrating rings, clit-sucking toys like Womanizer, or oral enhancement gels
This Guide Covers Everything You Need to Know
You’ve probably never heard of the Plumber BJ position before — most people haven’t. But here’s the thing: we’re putting together a complete guide to this overlooked position that you’ll find useful. This isn’t some quick “here’s how to do it” overview. We’re covering everything from the exact pillow setup that’ll keep you comfortable to the control techniques that make this position work well. Once you try it, you’ll understand why it’s worth adding to your repertoire.
What This Complete Guide Will Cover:
Getting Set Up Without the Awkward Fumbling
- The pillow arrangement that actually works (not just “use some pillows”)
- How to transition into position without killing the mood
- Body positioning that feels natural for both partners
Mastering the Control Game
- Why this position gives you more control than you might expect
- Communication techniques that keep everything smooth and enjoyable
- How to adjust pressure and depth effectively
Making It Comfortable for Everyone
- Solutions for the most common comfort issues
- What to do if your gag reflex gets triggered
- Adjustments for different body types and comfort levels
Taking It Further
- Three variations that’ll keep things interesting
- How to bring toys into the mix naturally
- Smooth transitions to other positions when you’re ready
The Safety Stuff That Actually Matters
- Why your arms staying free is crucial (and not just for comfort)
- How to communicate when your mouth is… occupied
- When this position might not be the best choice
Real Talk from People Who’ve Actually Done This
- What actually feels good vs. what looks good in theory
- The mistakes that can mess up the experience
- Tips that make the difference between decent and really good
Coming Soon: Everything You Need to Master This Position
Our complete guide drops soon with all the details you need to make this position work well for you.
Ready to explore more oral techniques? Check out our complete oral sex positions collection for creative variations and advanced techniques like the intense Face Fuck variation, the comfortable Shower BJ, or the traditional Kneeling BJ approach.
Your Questions Answered (Before You Even Ask)
How’s this different from getting dominated orally? You’re in way more control here — you can push away, adjust depth, and set the pace. It’s like the difference between being a passenger and being the driver.
Do I need to be super flexible? Nope. Your partner needs to be comfortable on all fours, but that’s about it. If you can lie back comfortably, you’re all set.
Is this actually comfortable for beginners? With the right pillow setup, yes. The key is taking your time and not rushing into it. If you want to build your foundation first, start with the Classic BJ Position to perfect your fundamentals before trying more advanced techniques.
What if I’m worried about choking? That’s one of the advantages of this position — you control everything. No surprise deep action, no losing control. You decide what happens when.
Does this work for everyone? Yes. Any couple where one person enjoys giving oral can make this work. The position is adaptable to different preferences and comfort levels.