Gay positions that'll make you both lose your minds!

Figuring out what goes where or just wanna get off better? These guy-on-guy positions are here to make it rougher, deeper, messier—whatever gets you both off. Ride him, bend over, take control, or let him wreck you. No rules, just hot gay sex positions that actually feel good. Find the one that makes you moan louder!

Two gay men on the bed in the face to face missionary position.

Missionary

This classic position creates intimate connection while still delivering intense pleasure. The bottom lies on his back with the top between his legs, allowing for kissing, eye contact, and perfect control over depth. Simple doesn’t mean boring – slight angle adjustments make this position hit all the right spots!

Guys enjoy each other while trying out a new doggy-style position during gay sex.

Doggy Style

This rear-entry position gives the top perfect access and control while the bottom can adjust the angle by changing his arch. It allows for deep penetration, great views, and the perfect position for reaching around. You can make it more dominant by pushing his head down or more intimate by leaning forward along his back. Easy to maintain and guaranteed to feel amazing for both of you!

A gay couple on the bed, with the white man lying on his stomach while his Black partner is on top, holding him close as they enjoy the moment together.

Prone Bone

Prone Bone puts the bottom flat on his stomach with a slight arch while the top takes complete control. The angle hits the prostate perfectly while allowing deep, powerful thrusts that feel incredible for both partners. The bottom can’t move much—that’s the point—creating an intense sensation of being taken that drives many guys wild. Perfect for those who love the feeling of being dominated!

A gay couple enjoying the cowboy position on the bed. The Black man lies on his back while his partner, wearing black socks, sits on top, taking control of the moment.

Sitting up Cowboy

Take control while staying connected! The bottom straddles the seated top, controlling depth and speed while they face each other. This position keeps you close for kissing and dirty talk, plus gives the bottom total freedom to grind exactly how he needs. Perfect for guys who love to ride and want to see every reaction they cause!

A gay couple practicing the Reverse Cowboy Position in the bedroom, with one partner sitting on top facing away while the other lies beneath him.

Reverse Cowboy

The most underrated gay sex position. Why aren’t you riding yet? Sit on top, take control, and show off what you’ve got! The bottom faces away while sitting on the top’s cock, controlling depth, speed, and angle while giving an incredible view. It hits the prostate from a unique angle while letting the bottom work his own pleasure exactly how he wants it. Perfect for bottoms who love to be in charge and tops who enjoy watching the show!

Black guy lying on his back, pleasuring his roommate in the horizontal cowboy pose.

Horizontal Cowboy

Want the closeness of missionary with the control of riding? This face-to-face position has the bottom straddling the top while both lie down. It creates incredible intimacy with maximum skin contact, perfect eye contact, and great access for kissing. The angle is gentler than regular cowboy but hits different spots that can be mind-blowing. Great for lovers who want to see each other’s pleasure while still letting the bottom control the action!

A gay couple in the shower practicing the Body Guard Position. One man stands closely behind his partner, holding him securely in an intimate embrace.

Body Guard

Standing sex that actually works! This shower-friendly position has the bottom braced against the wall while the top enters from behind. The upright angle creates intense friction, and both hands stay free for extra fun. Great for quickies or when you can’t wait to get to the bedroom. The water-slick bodies add a whole new sensation!

A black man lies on his back on the couch while his white partner bends into the arch position, their bodies closely connected as they enjoy the moment in a cozy living room.

Arch

Want to hit spots you didn’t know existed? The Arch position puts the bottom on his back with legs pulled up, creating the perfect angle for deep, targeted thrusting. The top gets an amazing view while hitting the prostate with every stroke. Perfect for intense eye contact and hitting that sweet spot that’ll have him seeing stars!

A blonde man holds his partner securely in his strong arms in the living room as they practice the ыtand and сarry position.

Stand and Carry

Show off your strength with this impressive position! The top holds the bottom completely off the ground while thrusting. The unique angle and complete surrender create insane pleasure for both. Requires some muscle but delivers sensation worth the workout. Lean against a wall for support and prepare for some of the hottest sex of your life!

A gay couple enjoying the Anvil Position. The man with dyed hair lies on his back with his legs lifted, while his Black partner is on top.

Anvil

This position puts the bottom on his back with legs pushed all the way back, opening everything up for intense penetration. The top gets complete access and control, able to thrust at the perfect angle for prostate stimulation. Not for beginners, but guys who can handle it swear by the mind-blowing intensity!

Guys have fun practicing the reverse launchpad position during sex.

Reverse Launch Pad 

Experience a unique angle that hits spots other positions miss! The bottom lies on his back with legs folded toward his chest while the top kneels between them facing away. This reversed position creates intense sensations as the top’s penis curves perfectly against the front wall of the rectum. Perfect for when you want to focus entirely on the physical pleasure without the distraction of eye contact!

A handsome man standing up enjoys his friend in doggy style position.

Standing Doggy

Need it rough and fast? This position has the bottom bent over (against furniture for support) while the top enters from behind. The standing angle creates deeper penetration and lets the top use his whole body for powerful thrusting. Perfect for those dominant moments when you need to take or be taken hard and fast!

A red-haired man lies on his back on the couch while his partner holding one of his legs over his shoulder as they have deep missionary sex

Leg On Shoulder

Want deeper access without full anvil intensity? This modified missionary keeps one of the bottom’s legs down while the other rests on the top’s shoulder. The asymmetrical position creates unique sensations and opens the bottom up for deeper penetration. Great middle ground between intimate and intense!

A gay couple lying on the bed in the Spooning Position. The Black man is behind, holding his white partner close as they enjoy a tender moment together.

Spooning

For something intimate yet deep try Spooning. It lets you both lie on your sides while the top enters from behind. It’s perfect for slow, grinding sex, lazy morning sessions, or when you want to whisper dirty talk directly into his ear. The angle creates unique sensations, and the top’s hands are free to roam the bottom’s body or stroke him simultaneously. Great for when you want to take your time and build up to intense orgasms!

Two muscular men in the gay deep impact missionary position on bed with navy sheets.

Deep Impact

Take missionary to the next level by putting his legs on your shoulders for incredible depth and control. This angle lets you hit his prostate with precision while watching every reaction cross his face. The elevated position creates intense sensations that’ll have him gripping the sheets and begging for more. Perfect for when you want deep, powerful thrusts with maximum eye contact and connection!