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Reading time: 5 minutes | Last Updated: June 10, 2025
Quick Facts
- What it is: Receiving partner lies flat with legs spread while penetrating partner positions between one leg, creating an X-shaped formation
- Also known as: X position, angled doggy style, crossed entry position, twisted doggy position, diagonal doggy, prone cross position
- Difficulty: Easy (seriously, if you can lie down, you’ve got this)
- Best for: Hitting spots that make you say “right there” without your knees giving out
- Why it’s amazing: Deep satisfaction meets zero effort for pure pleasure
- Common challenge: Finding that perfect angle between comfort and intensity
- Perfect pairing: Bullet vibrator tucked between bodies for clitoral stimulation, or a vibrating cock ring for shared pleasure that intensifies the tight sensations
What Makes the Crossed Doggy Position So Addictive?
Ever been in the middle of regular doggy style thinking, “This feels incredible, but damn, my knees are killing me”? The crossed doggy position is like someone took your favorite rear-entry move and gave it a comfort upgrade without sacrificing any of the intensity.
Here’s the setup: instead of the classic hands-and-knees routine, you’re lying completely flat while your partner slides between one of your spread legs. Your bodies create this X pattern that isn’t just visually appealing—it opens up angles that’ll surprise you.
The beauty is in how this angled approach changes everything. Where regular doggy hits the same delicious spots over and over, this crossed variation finds new places that feel amazing. The trajectory naturally finds your G-spot (or P-spot for our prostate-having friends) while the relaxed positioning means you can ride those waves of pleasure as long as you want.
What makes this position special isn’t just the angle—it’s how that angle lets you access sensations most couples never discover. Research on sexual wellness shows that bringing novelty and variation to your sexual repertoire can significantly enhance pleasure and maintain interest between partners. You’re not just switching things up; you’re finding new ways to drive each other wild.
How to Get Into This Pleasure Paradise
Getting into crossed doggy is refreshingly simple, but the devil’s in those delicious details:
If You’re Receiving:
Stretch out face-down on your bed like you’re sunbathing (minus the bikini, obviously). Spread your legs wide—think of creating the perfect landing strip for your partner. Now here’s where it gets interesting: you’re not just lying there like a starfish. You control the angle by adjusting how much you arch your back or press your hips into the mattress.
The first time you feel them slide between your legs at this angle, you might gasp. Don’t fight it—that’s your body recognizing something good is happening.
If You’re Giving:
Position yourself between one of their gorgeous spread legs—not between both like you might expect. You’re creating that X formation, remember? Support yourself with your knees and one hand while you find that sweet entry angle.
Start gentle because this position can be surprisingly intense. Watch their body language, listen to those little sounds they make when you hit exactly the right spot. Your free hand? Use it to caress their back, grab their hip, or reach around for some extra fun.
The magic moment comes when you find that perfect alignment where every movement creates friction in all the right places. You’ll both know when you’ve got it.
Why This Position Creates Unforgettable Nights
It Hits Different (In the Best Way)
The angled penetration in crossed doggy targets your front wall in ways that regular positions simply can’t match. For vulva owners, this means direct G-spot contact that can build into those deep, full-body orgasms. For those with prostates, the angle provides pressure that makes your toes curl.
The prone position you are seeing above also creates natural tightness without any uncomfortable contortions. Your bodies just fit together in this satisfying way that intensifies every sensation.
Comfort Meets Intensity
Unlike traditional doggy where someone’s eventually going to get tired, crossed doggy lets you both settle in for the long haul. The receiving partner gets to completely melt into the mattress while the giving partner has multiple points of contact for stability.
This isn’t just about lasting longer—it’s about having the freedom to build arousal slowly, to tease and please without watching the clock or wondering when your arms are going to give out.
The Visual is Absolutely Stunning
There’s something artistic about the way your bodies create this X pattern, but let’s be real—it’s also arousing. The giving partner gets a great view while the receiving partner experiences being completely desired and taken.
One of our BSP community members put it perfectly: “It’s like being worshipped and ravished at the same time.”
Making It Work for Every Body
Getting Comfortable
Start with plenty of foreplay—seriously, don’t skip this part. The more aroused and relaxed you are, the better everything feels. Keep good lube within arm’s reach because the position can create more delicious friction than you’re used to.
If you’re new to this, begin with shorter sessions. The sensations can be pretty intense, and you want to build up that pleasure gradually rather than overwhelming yourselves right out of the gate.
Communication is Sexy
Establish your “yes, more,” “perfect,” and “ease up” signals before you start. This position can hit spots that make you literally speechless, so having non-verbal cues helps keep everyone in their happy place.
Don’t be shy about directing the action. “A little higher,” “slower,” or “exactly like that” aren’t just helpful—they’re incredibly hot to hear. Sexual health experts consistently emphasize that open communication about comfort and pleasure enhances both safety and satisfaction during intimate experiences.
When Things Need Tweaking
Can’t find the right angle? Have the receiving partner experiment with different leg spreads or try tucking a pillow under their hips. Sometimes a tiny adjustment makes all the difference between “nice” and “oh my god, don’t stop.”
If penetration feels tricky at first, try starting in regular doggy style and then transitioning into the crossed position once you’re connected. It’s like a sexy little dance move that gets you exactly where you want to be.
Level Up Your Experience
Strategic Pillow Placement
A pillow under the receiving partner’s hips can turn good into really good. It changes the angle just enough to hit those deeper spots that make your eyes roll back.
Keep your surfaces comfortable too—memory foam is your friend for longer sessions where you really want to lose track of time.
Extra Hands, Extra Fun
The giving partner’s free hand opens up a world of possibilities. Trail fingers down their back, grab their hair (if they’re into that), or reach around for some clitoral attention. Multi-tasking has never felt so good.
Consider keeping a small vibrator nearby for additional stimulation. The crossed position creates good access for toys that can turn great sex into something you’ll think about for days. A bullet vibrator works perfectly tucked between your bodies, or try a vibrating cock ring that enhances sensations for both partners while maintaining that tight fit.
Related Positions in the BSP Collection
If you’re loving the crossed doggy experience, these other BSP doggy style positions favorites might be right up your alley:
When you want that same spread-leg setup with even more dramatic angles
From our acrobatic collection, perfect for taking this X formation concept to the next level
- Speed Bump Position
Another elevated rear-entry technique that targets similar sweet spots
A compressed variation that brings you even closer together
The Real Talk from Best Sexy Positions
The crossed doggy position proves that sometimes the most incredible discoveries come from the simplest adjustments. This X-rated angle transforms standard rear entry into something that targets pleasure zones most couples never even know exist.
The combination of enhanced sensation, sustainable comfort, and visual intensity leaves you both wanting more. It’s the kind of position that makes you realize you’ve been settling for “good enough” when “really good” was just one angle adjustment away.
Here’s what one of our community members messaged us: “We tried this position thinking it would be just another variation. Three hours later, we’re ordering a better mattress because we’re spending a lot more time in bed.”
Your homework from BSP: Skip the traditional setup next time you’re in the mood for rear entry. Try this crossed positioning and pay attention to how that different angle transforms everything you feel. Don’t be surprised if it becomes your new go-to move.
Best Sexy Positions certified: We don’t just write about these positions—we dive deep into what actually works in real bedrooms with real people having real, great sex. Consider this your invitation to join the crossed doggy converts who’ve discovered that the best pleasure often comes from unexpected angles.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the crossed doggy position actually different from regular doggy style? Absolutely! While regular doggy has you on hands and knees with your partner between both legs, crossed doggy has you lying flat with your partner positioned between just one of your spread legs. This creates completely different angles and sensations—plus you get to relax completely instead of supporting your weight. It’s like comparing a quick snack to a gourmet meal.
Can we use toys with this position? Hell yes, and you should! The flat positioning is perfect for bullet vibrators tucked between your bodies for clitoral stimulation. Vibrating cock rings work amazingly well too since they enhance the already-tight sensations. The key is choosing toys that don’t interfere with the crossed body positioning—compact is your friend here.
What if we can’t get the angle right? Don’t stress—finding your perfect angle might take a few tries, and that’s part of the fun. Have the receiving partner experiment with spreading their legs wider or closer together, try a pillow under the hips, or switch which leg the penetrating partner positions between. Sometimes tiny adjustments make huge differences between “nice” and “oh my god, don’t stop.”
Is this position good for anal play? Many couples love crossed doggy for anal because the relaxed positioning and controlled angle make it comfortable and intimate. The flat position gives you better control over depth and pace, which is especially important for anal. Just use plenty of quality lube and take your time—the unique angle can create surprisingly intense sensations.
How is this different from prone bone? Great question! While both involve lying flat, prone bone uses traditional positioning with the penetrating partner between both legs. Crossed doggy creates that X formation by going between one leg, which completely changes the trajectory and creates different pressure points. Think of it as prone bone’s more adventurous cousin that discovered a secret pathway to pleasure.