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Reading time: 4 minutes | Last Updated: July 10, 2025
Quick Facts
- What It Is: Receiving partner lies back with pillows under head while penetrating partner straddles their chest and controls oral thrusting
- Also Known As: Face fucking, irrumatio, mouth fucking, aggressive oral, dominant BJ, skull fucking
- Difficulty: Intermediate – requires trust, communication, and gradual buildup for safety
- Best For: Couples exploring power dynamics and oral experiences with eye contact
- Why It’s Hot: Eye contact while one partner controls rhythm and depth
- Common Challenge: Finding the right balance between intensity and comfort for both partners
- What You’ll Need: Throat-safe flavored lube (water-based like Aloe Cadabra), supportive neck pillows, and clear communication signals
Here’s What’s Coming Your Way
We’re putting the finishing touches on what might be our most intimate oral guide yet. This isn’t your typical “how-to” – we’re talking about the psychological magic that happens when you surrender control completely, the way eye contact changes everything, and yes, the specific body mechanics that make this position feel absolutely electric.
Think of it as the oral equivalent of that dance where one person leads and the other follows – except way more naked and more intense. Whether you’re curious about taking the reins or letting someone else drive, this guide will walk you through every delicious detail.
Explore more techniques in our complete oral collection while you wait.
What You’ll Discover in This Complete Guide
The Perfect Setup and Safety Dance
- Exact positioning that makes both partners feel incredible (and safe)
- The communication tricks that turn nervousness into excitement
- How to build intensity gradually without overwhelming anyone
Advanced Moves and Variations
- Hand techniques that’ll make their eyes roll back
- Breathing rhythms that let you sustain the magic longer
- Position tweaks for different body types and comfort levels
The Psychology Behind the Pleasure
- Why the power exchange feels so intoxicating
- Building trust that makes everything more intense
- The art of aftercare and connection post-session
Troubleshooting the Tricky Bits
- Working with sensitive gag reflexes (without killing the mood)
- Adjusting when bodies don’t line up perfectly
- Knowing when to pause, shift, or try something else
Taking It to the Next Level
- Advanced variations for experienced players
- Adding toys and extra stimulation
- Creating the perfect atmosphere for this kind of intimacy
Coming Soon
This complete guide drops within the next two weeks, packed with everything you need to explore this intense position safely and confidently.
Learn These Techniques First
Start with these core techniques:
- Classic BJ Position – Learn the fundamentals first
- Plumber BJ Position – Similar straddling technique with gentler approach
- Jackhammer BJ Position – Deep throat power moves
Trust us – learning these first will make the face fuck position feel like a natural next step rather than a scary leap.
Sneak Peek: Your Burning Questions Answered
Is this actually safe for beginners? With the right approach and patience, absolutely – but you’ll want to learn the communication part first.
How is this different from deep throat? Completely different animal. This is about power exchange and eye contact, not just depth. The psychological element changes everything.
What if my partner’s never been dominant before? Good time to explore! The guide includes confidence-building tips for nervous dominants and eager submissives alike.
Can this work for all body combinations? Yes, with the right adjustments. We cover modifications for different heights, sizes, and comfort levels.
How do we communicate when someone’s mouth is… occupied? We’ve got a whole system of signals that keep things hot while keeping everyone safe.
What makes this worth trying over regular oral? The intensity is completely different. It’s like comparing a gentle massage to being pinned down and pleased – both good, but totally different experiences.