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Reading time: 3 min | Last updated: 20 July 2025
Quick Facts
- What It Is: Receiving partner kneels or squats over giving partner’s face with anus positioned over mouth, while giver lies on back providing oral stimulation
- Also Known As: Anal queening, reverse rimming throne, anal facesitting, backdoor royalty
- Difficulty: Intermediate (communication is sexy, and confidence makes it even better)
- Best For: Complete control over your anal pleasure while your partner focuses entirely on you
- Why It’s Amazing: You dictate every sensation while experiencing the rush of being literally on top
- Common Challenge: Balancing dominance with ensuring your partner stays comfortable and can breathe easily
- Perfect Pairing: Flavored lube, supportive neck wedge, hands-free stroker for simultaneous pleasure, sturdy headboard for balance
A Position Where You’re in Charge
Anal face sitting puts you in control of where, how hard, and how long that tongue works on you. This isn’t just another position in the oral positions category – it’s about getting exactly what you want, when you want it.
Instead of lying back and hoping your partner finds the right rhythm, you’re making the decisions. Want more pressure? Lower yourself down. Need a different angle? Shift your hips. Your partner gets to focus entirely on making you feel good.
Our anal face sitting guide covers everything from building confidence to advanced techniques. You’ll learn how to own this position while making sure your partner loves every second of it too.
What This Guide Will Cover:
Perfect Positioning & Setup
- Step-by-step instructions for both kneeling and squatting approaches
- How to find the ideal angle for maximum pleasure and safety
- Communication strategies for adjusting pressure and depth in real-time
Mastering the Mental Game
- Building confidence to fully embrace the dominant role
- Helping shy partners feel comfortable exploring power dynamics
- Creating the right atmosphere for this intimate experience
Safety & Comfort Essentials
- Hygiene preparation that actually works (no intimidating routines)
- Breathing space techniques that keep everyone happy and healthy
- Warning signs to watch for and how to adjust quickly
Pleasure Enhancement Techniques
- How to guide your partner’s tongue work without breaking the mood
- Incorporating toys and additional stimulation seamlessly
- Reading your partner’s responses to maximize their enjoyment too
Variations & Advanced Play
- Forward-facing vs. reverse positioning pros and cons
- Transitioning smoothly to other positions mid-session
- BDSM elements for couples ready to explore deeper power exchange
Troubleshooting Common Issues
- What to do when positioning feels awkward at first
- Managing leg fatigue during longer sessions
- Addressing concerns about weight or body confidence
Your Most Asked Questions About Anal Face Sitting
Is this position safe for beginners who’ve never tried face sitting before? Absolutely, as long as you start slowly and communicate constantly about pressure and breathing comfort.
How is anal face sitting different from regular queening? The target area creates different sensations and requires slightly different tongue techniques, plus the psychological dynamic feels more intense.
What’s the best way to prepare hygienically without making it weird? A quick shower focusing on the anal area is plenty – no special equipment or extensive prep needed.
Can I use this position if I’m worried about my weight? Your partner chose to be with you, and controlling your own weight distribution makes this completely manageable for any body type.
Should we use lube even though it’s just oral contact? Flavored lube can enhance the experience and shows you’re thinking about your partner’s comfort too.
The full anal face sitting guide will be available soon with detailed instructions, safety tips, and confidence-building advice. Until then, check out our Queening Position guide to master the basic face-sitting mechanics.