How To Make Her Night Remarkable With The Sandwich Position

What Makes the Sandwich Position So Damn Hot

Forget boring missionary – the Sandwich position is what happens when ordinary sex gets a deliciously naughty upgrade. At BSP, we consider this the secret weapon of bedroom basics – familiar enough to try tonight, intense enough to make you bite your lip and grip the sheets.

In this position, you lie back with your legs pressed tightly together while your partner straddles you and penetrates from above. Your legs become the “filling” squeezed between their thighs, creating a sensation so intense it borders on overwhelming.

The first time I tried Sandwich with my partner, I actually gasped out loud. That tight squeeze creates friction so delicious it made my skin flush and my back arch involuntarily. The heat between your bodies, the pressure against every sensitive spot, the way they feel twice their size inside you – it’s an instant upgrade to your pleasure menu.

Why the Sandwich Position Will Make You Forget Regular Missionary

Let me be blunt about why you need to try this compressed missionary tonight:

For the Receiver:

• Every thrust feels deeper and more intense – your tightly closed legs make even average-sized partners feel magnificently huge
• Your most sensitive spots get constant attention – the angle targets your pleasure zones with devastating precision
• You can surrender completely – just lie back and let the waves of pleasure wash over you while they do all the work
• The psychological thrill is intoxicating – being pinned down with your legs tight creates a delicious sense of being thoroughly possessed

I once had a partner whisper, “I can feel you everywhere at once” during Sandwich position – that’s exactly how consuming the sensation becomes. The pressure builds in places ordinary positions never reach.

For the Giver:

• The tightness will make your eyes roll back – like being gripped by warm velvet from every angle
• You’re completely in control – dictate every movement while watching them come undone beneath you
• The view is pure erotic art – see their lips part and eyes flutter with each perfect thrust
• The position naturally makes you feel powerful – having them pinned beneath you creates an electric power dynamic

How to Get Into the Sandwich Position and Rock Their World

Getting this position right means the difference between “that was nice” and “I think I just saw God”:

The No-Nonsense Setup

1. Receiver lies on their back
2. Giver kneels between their legs like normal missionary
3. Receiver closes legs completely together (the magic happens here)
4. Giver moves to straddle those closed legs
5. Giver leans forward and guides themselves inside (this takes a moment – be patient)

Making It Feel Phenomenal

• Find your perfect height: Giver, adjust your position until you find the exact spot that makes them gasp and grab for you
• Try different leg positions: Receiver, experiment with straight legs, slightly bent knees, or crossed ankles – each creates a different sensation
• Use the pillow trick: A firm pillow under the receiver’s hips creates an angle that turns good penetration into toe-curling ecstasy
• Talk dirty through it: “You feel impossibly tight,” “I can feel you throbbing inside me” – saying what you feel amplifies the pleasure tenfold

How to Move in the Sandwich Position

This isn’t the position for jackhammer thrusting. Here’s how to move for maximum pleasure:

Movements That’ll Make Them Beg For More

• Deep grinding – Press completely inside and make slow, deliberate circles that apply pressure to their deepest pleasure points
• Shallow pulses – Short, controlled movements that maintain the tight sensation without losing that perfect connection
• Pressure waves – Alternate between pressing firmly down and easing up, creating an intense build that makes them squirm beneath you
• The figure eight – Subtle hip rotations that trace a figure eight pattern inside them, hitting spots they didn’t know could feel so good

I discovered the figure eight technique during a particularly heated session. My partner dug their fingers into my back so hard they left marks – while whispering things I can’t repeat here. That’s how earth-shattering this simple movement can be.

Next-Level Pleasure Intensifiers

• Get handsy – Giver, one hand can slip around their throat for a gentle squeeze while the other supports your weight. According to the Kinsey Institute’s Dual Control Model, sexual arousal is shaped by both excitatory and inhibitory responses. For some people, consensual power play may increase arousal by activating the body’s natural “go” signals while quieting the internal brakes.
• Vibrator heaven – A slim vibe slipped between your bodies will turn the Sandwich into a multi-orgasmic feast
• Cross those ankles – Receiver, crossing ankles creates a vice-like tightness that will make both of you see stars
• Whisper your darkest thoughts – The closeness of this position makes it perfect for sharing exactly what you want to do next

When Things Get Tricky

“I can’t get inside when their legs are closed!” Start in regular missionary, penetrate, then have them slowly close their legs while you adjust position. Once you’re in, the challenge becomes completely worth it.

“My hips feel strained!” Keep your legs slightly apart or bent at the knees. Bedsider’s sex experts recommend simple hip stretches to make pleasure positions more comfortable – just a few minutes daily can dramatically improve your flexibility for bedroom adventures. As you loosen up, you can close your legs tighter with each session and still feel incredible.

“We keep slipping out!” Press your bodies together and use grinding motions rather than long thrusts. More lube helps create the perfect slide while maintaining that delicious friction.

“It feels awkward, not sexy!” Shift the receiver’s hips just half an inch or change the angle slightly – suddenly what felt awkward becomes your new favorite sensation.

Variations That’ll Drive You Both Wild

The Lock and Key

Cross ankles and squeeze thighs even tighter. This creates pulsing waves of pleasure that make your entire body tingle. There’s something undeniably hot about seeing your partner’s ankles locked while you’re deep inside them.

The Pillow Princess Sandwich

Stack two firm pillows under the receiver’s hips to hit spots that make them whimper with each thrust. This slight lift transforms the feeling from great to mind-melting.

The Half & Half

Keep one leg closed and wrap the other around your partner’s back. This gives you tight pressure on one side and deeper access on the other – the contrast alone can trigger explosive release.

Who Needs This Position in Their Life Right Now

The Sandwich position is perfect for:

• Couples who think they’ve mastered all missionary positions (trust me, you haven’t even started)
• Partners who crave that stretched-full sensation without discomfort
• Morning sex enthusiasts who want earth-shaking pleasure with minimal movement
• Anyone who gets turned on by subtle dominance and submission dynamics
• Size-diverse couples – the position naturally accommodates different body types

More Missionary Magic to Explore

When you’re ready to explore beyond the Sandwich, try these related positions from our BSP collection:

The Seashell Position

When you’re flexible enough to fold yourself in half for even deeper sensations

The Anvil Position

For precision targeting of your deepest pleasure points

The Eagle Position

When you want to spread wide instead of squeeze tight

The Launch Pad Position

For a more intense leg position that hits all the right spots

The BSP Bottom Line

The Sandwich position transforms ordinary missionary into an experience that’ll have both of you panting and moaning. Simply keeping those legs together creates a sensation so intense it can trigger orgasms that ripple through your entire body.

We’ve thoroughly tested this position (someone has to do this research, you’re welcome), and it consistently delivers pleasure that makes our testers blush when describing it. I’ve personally witnessed partners experience shuddering, full-body orgasms in this position that make complicated acrobatic positions seem like wasted effort.

BSP certified: We don’t just write about these positions—we put them through rigorous pleasure testing to ensure they deliver exactly what we promise. The Sandwich position has earned its certification by delivering intense, powerful orgasms that might have your neighbors wondering exactly what’s happening in your bedroom.

Ready to feel what you’ve been missing? Try another BSP-certified position tonight and thank us in the morning.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is the Sandwich position good for beginners? Absolutely. It’s essentially missionary with your legs closed—no special skills required.

Can I do anal in the Sandwich position? Yes, the tight leg position actually enhances access while creating a uniquely intense sensation. Just use extra lube.

Does this work for same-sex couples? Any couple where one person can penetrate the other can enjoy this position, whether with natural equipment, strap-ons, or toys.

Can I do this while pregnant? Early pregnancy, yes. Later stages, you’ll likely need to modify as your belly grows.

What makes this better than regular missionary? The closed legs transform everything—creating tightness that makes the giver feel twice as large while focusing pressure exactly where the receiver needs it most.