The Lesbian 69 Position That Makes Her Worship You Like a Goddess

What Makes Lesbian 69 So Damn Addictive

You know that moment in Dirty Dancing when Baby finally nails the lift? That’s what mastering lesbian 69 feels like – suddenly everything clicks and you’re flying together in perfect harmony, except way more naked and significantly more breathless.

Picture this: you’re tasting her sweetness while her mouth creates waves of pleasure that flow through you. Every moan she makes vibrates against you, making you want to drive her even wilder, which makes her respond with more enthusiasm – it’s this hot give-and-take that builds and builds until you’re both trembling and reaching for each other.

The first time my girlfriend suggested we try this, I honestly thought it might be too distracting. How wrong I was. Within minutes, we’d discovered this perfect rhythm where her gasps became my motivation and my pleasure became hers. Instead of splitting my attention, it somehow made everything feel more intense. Now when we want that connection where we’re both equally desired and worshipped, 69 is our secret weapon.

Unlike other lesbian positions where one of you gets to be the star while the other waits for their curtain call, lesbian 69 creates this hot give-and-take where you’re both the leading lady. Every shiver she makes because of your tongue sends heat racing down your spine, and knowing you’re both lost in sensation simultaneously? That’s the kind of intimacy that changes how you think about sex.

How to Get Into Lesbian 69 (And Stay Lost in Each Other)

Ready to discover what makes this position so special? Here’s how to set yourselves up for the kind of session that leaves you both satisfied:

Getting Started:

1. Talk dirty about it first – whisper what you’re craving and ask what makes her fantasize
2. Pick your perfect variation (we’ll cover the steamiest options below)
3. Take your sweet time positioning – comfort equals longer sessions and those deep, powerful climaxes
4. Start with teasing exploration – let your tongues discover what makes her arch and moan
5. Find that perfect rhythm – when you hit it, you’ll both feel like you’ve unlocked a new kind of pleasure

Pro tip from someone who’s been there: Start with Side 69 if you’re new to this dance. Both of you lying on your sides, facing each other’s most sensitive spots. It’s comfortable enough for longer sessions and gives you both perfect access to please each other without anyone’s neck cramping up.

Quick comfort note: If jaw fatigue becomes an issue, take turns focusing on manual play while your mouth rests. And for safer play, Sexual Health Information Hub recommends dental dams for reducing transmission risks while maintaining pleasure. Think of them as sexy insurance policies that let you focus entirely on each other.

Why Lesbian 69 Changes Everything About Taking Turns

The Psychology is Seriously Hot: There’s something intoxicating about being completely vulnerable to your partner while she’s equally exposed to you. You’re breathing each other in, tasting every reaction, feeling every shiver up close. It’s intimacy turned way up with the volume all the way up.

What Makes This Hot Give-and-Take So Addictive:

• You feel everything together – her pleasure becomes your pleasure in real-time
• Instant feedback – you know immediately what’s working by how her body responds to your mouth
• Extended euphoria – you can keep each other dancing on that edge for as long as your hearts can handle
• Perfect equality – no one’s just lying there thinking about grocery lists; you’re both actively creating pleasure
• Orgasms that feel different – when you finally let go, giving and receiving at once creates climaxes that ripple through your whole body

Picture the heat building between you as you explore each other, the way her hips move when you find that perfect rhythm, how your own arousal intensifies every time she moans against you like she’s found religion. Lesbian 69 isn’t just about technique – it’s about losing yourselves in each other so completely that time becomes irrelevant.

Lesbian 69 Variations That’ll Drive You Both Wild

Classic 69 (The Power Play)

One of you lies back completely relaxed while the other straddles her face, looking down toward her center. The woman on top controls the pressure and angle, while the one underneath gets her hands free to grab, caress, and explore every inch of skin she can reach.

Hot tip: If you’re on top, use your knees and arms to support some weight – you want her focusing on turning you into putty in her hands, not struggling to breathe. Trust me, the first time I got so lost in the sensation that I forgot basic courtesy, our session ended faster than a TikTok video.

Perfect for: When one of you wants to take control and the other wants to surrender completely.

Side 69 (The Sunday Morning Special)

Both of you on your sides in this comfortable tangle, head-to-tail. This is pure comfort food for your sex life – satisfying, sustainable, and perfect for those lazy sessions where you want to savor every single sensation without rushing toward the finish line.

Techniques that work: Gentle, teasing licks that build slowly, using your whole mouth to explore every fold while your hands roam freely.

Perfect when: You’ve got all the time in the world and want to discover new ways to make each other gasp and arch.

Face Off 69 (The Height Solution)

One partner sits while the other kneels between her legs and leans over. This works beautifully when you’re different heights and gives you both access plus easy position changes when inspiration strikes.

Make it hotter: The sitting partner can guide with her hands while the kneeling partner controls the rhythm and pressure.

Techniques That’ll Drive Her Wild

Master the Art of Wordless Communication: Since talking is limited (your mouth has better things to do), develop your own pleasure language. A gentle squeeze of her thigh for “more of that,” a soft moan for “exactly like that,” or shifting slightly for “try something new and watch me melt.” Lesbian relationship experts emphasize that developing intimate communication styles strengthens both emotional and physical connections between partners.

Drive Her Wild:

• The tease and please – feather-light touches across her skin, then dive in like you’re savoring your favorite treat
• Don’t just use your tongue – let your lips explore every fold while she digs her nails into your thighs and gets lost in the moment
• Mirror her magic – when she’s doing something that feels incredible, return the favor and watch her body respond
• Build anticipation – pull back just when she’s climbing toward that peak, then dive back in and feel her whole body shudder

Comfort Hacks for Marathon Sessions:

• Strategic pillow placement transforms awkward angles into perfect access
• Stay hydrated – epic sessions require proper fuel
• A touch of quality lube makes everything silkier, even for oral adventures

When Things Get a Little Tangled

“Her tongue makes me lose my damn mind and I forget what I’m supposed to be doing”
Welcome to the club, honey. Here’s the secret: stop trying to be a multitasking goddess. Give her 30 seconds of your undivided attention, then surrender to what she’s doing to you. Think of it as the ultimate pleasure ping-pong game – you serve, she returns, and everybody wins.

“We can’t seem to line up right”
Height differences happen, and they’re totally workable. Use pillows creatively, try different surfaces, or switch to the Face Off 69 variation. Sometimes the couch works better than the bed.

“Someone’s struggling to breathe”
The top partner needs to support her own weight and create breathing room. Take pleasure breaks, switch positions, or go with Side 69 for unrestricted breathing.

“We’re obsessing over coming together”
Simultaneous orgasms are gorgeous when they happen, but don’t make them the holy grail. Focus on driving each other wild – if you climax together, amazing. If not, you’re still sharing something pretty incredible.

When Lesbian 69 Becomes Your Go-To Move

This mutual oral worship becomes your secret weapon when:

• You want to feel completely connected and equally adored
• You’re both craving oral but don’t want to take turns like polite dinner guests
• You have time for extended, intimate exploration sessions
• You love the delicious challenge of pleasuring while being pleasured

Level Up With These Oral Adventures

When you’re ready to explore beyond your lesbian 69 sessions, try these BSP favorites that build on the skills you’ve just mastered:

• Face Sitting Position

Perfect for when you want to take the oral worship intensity up a notch. One partner gets to focus entirely on giving while the other surrenders completely to receiving.

• Tribbing Position

Maintains that mutual pleasure dynamic you love about 69 but with grinding instead of oral. Both partners get stimulated simultaneously while you can kiss and maintain that intense eye contact.

• Scissors Position

Another mutual pleasure option that’s perfect for couples who want to build up to 69’s intensity. Your legs intertwine for grinding and manual exploration while you face each other.

The Real Talk: Why We’ve Road-Tested This at BSP

After extensive research and countless conversations with satisfied couples, lesbian 69 earns its spot as essential for any couple wanting mutual pleasure that can really transform your sex life. Sure, it takes some practice to coordinate, but that delicious sensation of giving and receiving simultaneously makes every awkward moment worth the learning curve.

What makes this position special isn’t just the physical pleasure – though that’s certainly spectacular. It’s the psychological rush of being completely focused on each other’s bodies at the same time. You’re both the giver and receiver, both vulnerable and powerful. That balance creates an intensity that’s hard to match and impossible to fake.

The secret to amazing 69 sessions isn’t perfect coordination from day one. It’s about communication, patience, and being willing to laugh when things don’t go exactly as planned. Some nights everything clicks immediately and you’re both transported. Other times you’ll spend five minutes repositioning pillows and discovering that the floor works better than the bed.

BSP certified: We don’t just write about these positions – we’ve lived them, refined them, and perfected the techniques that actually work in real bedrooms with real bodies. Try the Side 69 tonight and send us a mental thank-you note when you’re both lying there afterward, completely satisfied.

Your Burning Questions About Lesbian 69

Is it weird if we can’t get the rhythm right immediately?
Not even slightly! Lesbian 69 has a learning curve because you’re essentially learning to dance while horizontal and distracted by sensation. Start slow, use touch and sound to communicate, and give yourselves a few sessions to discover your perfect rhythm.

Should we try to climax at the same time?
Simultaneous orgasms are a gorgeous bonus, not a requirement. Focus on driving each other wild – if you happen to reach that peak together, incredible! If not, you’ve still shared something most people only fantasize about.

How long should we spend in 69?
However long feels good! Some couples love quick, intense sessions that leave them both gasping. Others spend an hour exploring every sensation. Listen to your bodies and don’t feel pressure to perform for any specific timeframe.

Is 69 better than taking turns?
Different experiences, both amazing in their own way. Some couples love the simultaneous aspect of lesbian 69, others prefer the focused attention of alternating. Try both styles and see what gets you both hottest – many couples switch between approaches depending on mood and energy.