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Reading time: 3 minutes | Last Updated: June 10, 2025
Quick Facts
- What It Is: Mutual oral sex with both partners lying on their sides
- Also Known As: Sideways 69, lateral 69, side-lying 69, comfortable 69, tilted 69, spooning 69
- Difficulty: Easy enough that you can focus entirely on pleasure instead of staying balanced
- Best For: Couples who want sustained mutual oral without neck strain or fatigue
- Why It’s Amazing: All the pleasure of traditional 69 with zero weight-bearing or awkward positioning
- Common Challenge: Finding the perfect angle alignment for both partners initially
- Perfect Pairing: Bullet vibrators for hands-free clit stimulation, flavored lubes, and supportive sex pillows
Your Complete Side 69 Guide is in the Works
Look, we’ve all been there – trying to make traditional 69 work while your neck screams in protest and someone’s getting squished. What if I told you there’s a version that gives you all that delicious mutual pleasure without the circus act? We’re putting together our detailed guide to side 69, and honestly, it could become your new go-to position.
This isn’t your typical “here’s how bodies fit together” guide. We’re covering the techniques that make this position feel great, the little adjustments that turn good into really good, and why couples who discover this often wonder what took them so long. If you want to explore more oral techniques right now, our oral positions collection has plenty to keep you busy.
What This Complete Guide Will Cover:
Mastering the Side 69 Setup
- Positioning that feels natural and gets you both comfortable fast
- The pillow tricks that solve height mismatches instantly
- Why this works beautifully regardless of body type, size, or gender
Techniques That Actually Feel Amazing
- Hand and mouth combinations that create good sensations
- Rhythm patterns that build tension until you’re both aching for more
- The sweet spots most people miss because they’re too focused on the obvious ones
Troubleshooting Every Challenge
- Quick fixes when angles don’t quite line up
- What to do when reaching feels awkward (spoiler: simple adjustment)
- Staying comfortable during longer sessions where you lose track of time
Variations That Spice Things Up
- Adaptations for different body combinations
- Advanced moves that boost sensation
- Beginner-friendly approaches when you’re testing the waters
Why Side 69 Often Beats the Classic
- The comfort factor that lets you actually focus on pleasure
- When sideways trumps vertical positioning
- Real experiences from people who made the switch
Inclusive Pleasure for Everyone
- Modifications that work for all gender combinations
- Strap-on friendly techniques for great enjoyment
- Celebrating the diversity of how we connect and pleasure each other
What’s Dropping Soon
This detailed guide launches next week with everything you need to turn side 69 into your new go-to position. Curious about the traditional approach? Our Classic 69 Position guide breaks down all the techniques worth knowing.
Your Side 69 Questions Answered
Is side 69 really better than the original? When you can go for half an hour without anyone’s arms going numb, you’ll understand why so many couples prefer it. Plus, you can actually focus on what you’re doing instead of playing human Jenga.
How do you deal with height differences? Smart pillow placement really helps – think of it as creating a good custom fit for your bodies. The taller person curves slightly while the shorter one gets elevated to the right level.
Does this work for people with curves? Absolutely! This position actually works better with curves since there’s no awkward weight-bearing. Your bodies naturally create the angles you need without anyone feeling squished.
Can beginners try this instead of traditional 69? It’s actually perfect for beginners because you don’t have to worry about balance or coordination. You can focus entirely on the sensations and learning what feels good.
What’s the easiest way to get into position? Start spooning, then turn toward each other – your bodies will naturally find the right spots. It’s pretty intuitive once you try it.