A man giving analingus to his girlfriend in the bedroom. She is wearing stockings and positioned in Doggy Style, standing on all fours as he pleasures her from behind.

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Reading time: 3 minutes | Last Updated: June 20, 2025

Quick Facts

  • What It Is: Advanced tongue techniques that transform basic rimming into toe-curling artistry
  • Also Known As: Analingus mastery, expert rimming, ass-eating excellence, advanced rim job techniques
  • Difficulty: Intermediate to Advanced (but we’ll teach you step-by-step like the patient friend you need)
  • Best For: Taking your partner from “that feels nice” to “holy shit don’t stop”
  • Why It’s Amazing: These aren’t basic licks—they’re precision techniques that hit nerve endings most people never discover
  • Common Challenge: Moving beyond tentative exploration to confident, pleasure-giving expertise
  • Perfect Pairing: Dental dams, flavored lube, positioning pillows

What You’re About to Learn

Picture this: you’re about to unlock techniques that turn you from someone who’s “pretty good at rimming” into the person your partner texts their friends about. We’re talking about the kind of skills that make someone’s eyes roll back, their breath catch, and their hands desperately grab for something to hold onto. This comprehensive guide is nearly here, and it’s going to change how you think about giving pleasure entirely.

What This Complete Guide Will Reveal:

The Foundation You Never Learned

  • The three-step approach that gets your partner melting from the first touch
  • Why most people position their tongue wrong (and how to fix it instantly)
  • Reading the signals that tell you exactly what they’re craving

Techniques That Separate Beginners from Experts

  • The “butterfly flutter” method that creates waves of sensation
  • Pressure mapping: hitting spots that make them arch their back
  • Rhythm secrets that build tension until they’re begging for release

Advanced Combinations That Drive Partners Wild

  • How to blend rimming with strategic touches elsewhere
  • Hand techniques that make every lick feel twice as intense
  • The art of the perfect pause (this one will surprise you)

If you’re already curious about the fundamentals, check out our classic analingus position guide to get the basics down first.

Confidence Through Preparation

  • Pre-play routines that eliminate all anxiety for both of you
  • Barrier methods that actually enhance rather than hinder pleasure
  • Conversation starters that make the topic feel natural and exciting

Positioning That Changes Everything

  • Beyond the basic positions—setups that give you perfect access
  • Comfort hacks for marathon sessions that leave you both satisfied
  • Smooth transitions that keep the energy flowing

Sneak Peek: Questions You’ve Been Dying to Ask

How do I know if I’m actually good at this? Their breathing gets deeper, their muscles relax into you, and they start making those little involuntary sounds that aren’t quite words but speak volumes.

What if my tongue gets tired halfway through? We’ll teach you sustainable techniques and strategic breaks that actually build anticipation rather than kill the mood.

Is this really safe, and how do I even bring it up? Completely safe with the right approach, and we have conversation openers that make the topic feel exciting rather than awkward.

What makes some people incredible at rimming while others just… aren’t? It’s all about technique, timing, and confidence—three things we’re about to teach you in detail.

Can rimming actually make someone climax, or is it always just foreplay? Absolutely can be the main event—we’ll show you exactly how to take your partner all the way.

Want to explore more oral techniques? Our complete oral positions category has everything from beginner basics to expert moves.

Get Ready to Level Up Your Skills

This guide is dropping soon, and you’ll want to bookmark this page. In the meantime, browse our expert collections for more techniques that’ll transform your bedroom game completely.