Tried the X-Rated Sex Position Yet? Here’s What You’re Missing

What Is the X-Rated Position?

Ready to discover the position that’ll make you forget regular reverse cowgirl? The X-rated position is what happens when you take control, lean into your power, and create something so visually stunning it should come with its own spotlight.

This isn’t just another way to be on top – it’s a complete transformation of how your bodies connect. You start by straddling your partner facing away from them (like reverse cowgirl), but here’s where it gets interesting: after he’s inside you, you lean forward and extend your legs straight back alongside his torso. When done right, your legs and his form a perfect X-shape – hence the name.

What makes this position absolutely addictive isn’t just the visual (though trust me, he’ll be mesmerized). It’s how the forward-leaning angle completely changes the sensations. You’re in total control of the rhythm, depth, and pace while the position naturally targets spots that make your eyes roll back.

The first time I tried this position, I was skeptical about the logistics. But when I leaned forward and felt that perfect angle hit, while watching my partner’s jaw drop at the view? I knew we’d found something special. This became our go-to when we wanted something that felt completely different from everything else.

Getting Into the X-Rated Position (Step by Step)

Don’t let the unique positioning intimidate you – once you understand the mechanics, it’s actually straightforward. Here’s how to nail it:

1. Start with him on his back – make sure you have enough bed space for your legs to extend comfortably
2. Straddle him reverse cowgirl style – face his feet and lower yourself onto him like you normally would
3. Here’s the magic moment – instead of staying upright, lean your torso forward toward his feet
4. Extend your legs back – stretch them straight back alongside his torso, one on each side
5. Find your support – rest your hands on his feet, shins, or the bed for leverage
6. Create the X – when positioned correctly, your extended legs and his legs form that signature X-shape
7. Start your movement – slide your body up and down his shaft, using your hands for leverage

The key is taking your time with the transition from reverse cowgirl to the forward-leaning position. Don’t rush it – the adjustment period is worth it when you find that perfect angle that makes you both gasp.

When your body is properly aroused, your sexual response intensifies dramatically – increased muscle tension, accelerated heart rate, and enhanced blood flow to sexual organs all work together to make positions like the X-rated feel even more incredible.

Why This Position Will Transform Your Sex Life

The X-rated position isn’t just another variation to try once – it creates experiences that regular positions simply can’t match. Here’s why this forward-leaning power move hits different:

For You (The Rider):

• Total control – You decide the speed, depth, and rhythm of every single movement
• Unique angle – The forward lean targets your G-spot in ways that’ll surprise you
• Power rush – There’s something intoxicating about being in complete command
• Visual confidence – Knowing how incredible you look from his perspective is a major turn-on
• Leverage advantage – Using his feet or legs for support lets you really go for it

For Him (The Lucky Observer):

• Unbeatable view – He gets to watch your entire body in motion from an angle he’s never seen
• Enhanced sensation – Your leg positioning creates a tightness that feels completely different
• Surrender fantasy – He gets to lie back and let you take complete control
• X-factor visual – The crossed-leg formation is pure visual poetry in motion
• Hands-free enjoyment – He can focus entirely on the sensations and the show

This position belongs to the broader family of woman on top positions, each offering unique benefits for women who love taking control. The X-rated stands out because it combines the visual appeal of reverse positioning with the intimate contact and leverage that creates truly intense sensations.

I’ve had partners tell me this position gives them sensations they’ve never felt before – the combination of visual stimulation and the unique tightness created by the leg positioning. From my end, the control and the angle create a build-up that leads to incredibly powerful orgasms.

How To Master The X-Rated Position

After extensive “research” (the best kind), here are the techniques that’ll take your X-rated game from good to unforgettable:

Setting Yourself Up for Success

• Warm up thoroughly – This position works best when you’re both fully aroused
• Use quality lube – The angle and movement can create extra friction
• Start slow – Find your groove before building intensity
• Communication is key – Tell him what feels good and ask for what you need

Movement Techniques That Work

• Slide don’t bounce – The forward position is perfect for smooth sliding motions
• Use your leverage – Grip his feet, ankles, or shins to control your movements
• Experiment with angles – Small adjustments in how you lean can create big changes in sensation
• Control the depth – You decide how much of him you take with each movement

Pro Tips for Maximum Pleasure

• Engage your core – This helps with stability and gives you more control
• Take breaks when needed – If your legs get tired, briefly return to regular reverse cowgirl
• Add extra stimulation – Reach down and touch yourself while you ride
• Make some noise – Let him know exactly how good it feels

The beauty of this position is that once you find your rhythm, you can maintain it for extended sessions. The forward-leaning position is actually quite sustainable once you get comfortable with it.

When You Need to Troubleshoot

Even the hottest positions have their learning curves. Here’s how to handle common X-rated challenges:

Getting Comfortable in the Forward Position

If the lean feels awkward at first, don’t give up. Try adjusting where you place your hands for support, or lean forward gradually until you find your sweet spot. Some people prefer gripping his ankles, others like pressing their palms on the bed – find what works for your body.

Leg Positioning Confusion

The “X” might not be perfect at first, and that’s totally fine. Focus on extending your legs back comfortably rather than forcing a perfect geometric shape. The visual appeal and sensation benefits happen naturally once you’re in position.

Stamina and Strength

This position does require some core and leg strength. If you get tired, transition back to regular reverse cowgirl for a breather, or switch to a less demanding position. Building up your stamina over multiple sessions is part of the fun.

Alternative Positions When You Want Variety

When You Need An Alternative

If the X-rated position is proving too ambitious today (we all have our off days), these alternatives from our cowgirl collection will still rock your world:

Reverse Cowgirl

The classic reverse cowgirl that started it all – straddle him facing away while staying upright. Perfect for when you want the visual appeal and control of facing away without the complexity of the forward lean. You get that incredible view he loves while maintaining easier balance and movement.

Betty Rocker (Horizontal Reverse Cowgirl)

Start in reverse cowgirl, then lean forward and rest on your forearms near his feet. Your legs stay in the traditional cowgirl position rather than extending back, making it more sustainable for longer sessions while still giving you that forward-leaning angle and grinding action. And voila! You are now in Betty Rocker position.

Irish Garden

This one’s for when you want to get creative with positioning. In Irish Garden he sits upright on the bed with legs spread wide, and you get on all fours facing away from him. Lower your waist down by straightening your legs behind him on either side of his waist, then rest your head and shoulders on the bed. It creates a unique angle that hits different spots while giving him an incredible view of your entire body in action.

What makes the X-rated position different is the specific leg extension that creates the signature X-shape and full-body contact. While these alternatives are fantastic for variety, they don’t quite replicate that distinctive sensation that makes the X-rated position so uniquely intense.

The BSP Bottom Line

The X-rated position proves that sometimes the most incredible experiences come from taking a familiar setup and adding one perfect twist. By transforming reverse cowgirl into this forward-leaning, leg-extending power position, you create something that’s visually stunning and physically intense.

This isn’t just about trying something new – it’s about discovering a position that puts you completely in control while creating sensations neither of you knew were possible. The learning curve is minimal, but the satisfaction is maximum.

Sexual activity offers numerous benefits beyond pleasure, including stress relief, improved circulation, and natural endorphin release. Regular intimate experiences provide genuine health benefits like strengthening pelvic floor muscles, boosting immune function, and enhancing overall well-being – making positions like the X-rated not just pleasurable but genuinely beneficial for your health.

Ready to take exactly what you want while driving him wild? The X-rated position is waiting for you to claim it.

BSP certified: We don’t just write about these positions – we’ve put them through enthusiastic “field testing” to ensure they deliver the pleasure they promise. This position earned its certification by consistently creating those “don’t you dare stop” moments that make both partners forget their own names.

Frequently Asked Questions About the X-Rated Position

Is this actually different from reverse cowgirl?

Absolutely. While you start in reverse cowgirl, the forward lean with extended legs creates completely different sensations and visuals. The angle changes how penetration feels, the tightness is enhanced by leg positioning, and you get leverage points that regular reverse cowgirl doesn’t offer. It’s like comparing a sports car to a motorcycle – both are vehicles, but the experience is totally different.

What if I can’t get the X-shape perfect?

Don’t stress about achieving geometric perfection. The position works as long as you’re leaning forward with your legs extended back alongside his torso. Some people’s legs cross more dramatically, others less so – both create the enhanced sensations and visual appeal that make this position special.

Will this work if we have different body types?

The X-rated position is actually quite adaptable to different heights and body types. Taller receivers might need to adjust how far forward they lean, while shorter ones might find more dramatic leg positioning works better. The key is finding the angle that feels good for both of you rather than forcing a specific look.

How do I build stamina for this position?

Start with shorter sessions and gradually build up your endurance. The forward-leaning position uses different muscles than upright riding, so it may feel challenging at first. Focus on engaging your core for stability, and don’t hesitate to take breaks by transitioning briefly to other positions before returning to X-rated. Think of it as your sexy workout routine.